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The International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies identifies in 'Psychological Support: Community-based Psychological Support Training Manual (2002) a number of self-help techniques. These are described below.
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Emotional reactions to distressing events are normal and should be expected both from the people affected and the helpers. The majority of the reactions are short-term with no lasting consequences. Both physical care and psychological support are important to successful recovery. If you still feel uneasy about your reactions after a few weeks, you should seek professional advice
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Technique
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Explanation
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Remember that your reactions are normal and unavoidable
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It is useful to express even frightening and strange feelings.
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Be aware of your tension and consciously try to relax.
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Slow your breathing and relax your muscles.
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Talk to someone with whom you feel at ease; describe to him/her what you were thinking or feeling during the critical event.
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You process the unpleasant experiences when you talk about them.
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Draw, paint, write, play music or take exercise. Look for a healthy outlet.
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Sometimes it is easier to express your feelings by doing rather than talking.
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Listen to what people close to you say and think about the event.
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It has affected them too, and they may share insight that will benefit you.
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Take special care of yourself. Try to keep eating well and limit alcohol and tobacco.
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Physical exercise is good for you because it relieves tension.
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Continue to work on routine tasks if it is difficult to concentrate on demanding duties.
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Tell your peers and team leader/supervisor about how the distressing event has affected you, so that they can understand.
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If you cannot sleep or feel too anxious, discuss this with someone you can trust.
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Do not self-medicate.
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Get medical advice.
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Go easy on yourself.
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It takes time to evaluate how you will view things after a distressing event has occurred.
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Avoid inflated or perfectionist expectations, either about yourself or others.
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These can only lead to disappointment and conflict.
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